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Use Your Style Key
a four-week course
to master your style process
You already know there's something here.
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There’s a feeling that you’ve touched, and you still remember it. That time you put something on and the day shifted.
The dress with the swishy skirt, and how you noticed yourself walking elegantly all day, as if you were a lady in a period drama.
The blouse in the perfect shade of purpley-blue, how it made your eyes shine, how pretty you felt. You let your friend take pictures of you that day.
The heeled boots that made you feel so confident. You were so nervous for that meeting. They helped you hold your ground.
Those special days when your clothes truly held you.
The times you caught your reflection and thought: Oh. There I am.
You know that style can do this.
You know that it’s more than just looking good.
It's about who you become when you're dressed in a way that feels true.
But you can't quite reach it consistently.
I want to help you get there.
To feel that magic and know how to call it back, day after day.
This course has been lovingly and intelligently designed based on my experience with hundreds and hundreds of clients. It will help you understand how YOUR style brain works.
And it will help you get there. To touch that feeling again and again.
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This course helped me see beauty and worthiness in myself in a way I didn’t expect.
It shifted something deep, and stayed with me long after.”
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—Maria, Course Participant
Here's How You Get There
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You hold a lot of style wisdom.
Even if you don’t have your style “all figured out”, you know things.
You know that light colors make you feel like a cuddly kitten. You know that big floral prints make you feel tragic.
What you need is a process that helps you listen to those intuitions, that helps you work with them.
When you know your process, style can feel so enjoyable.
When you're shopping, you're excited and beautiful things just come to you.
When you're putting an outfit together, it feels satisfying—more than the sum of its parts.
When you're done, you know it's good. You're kind to yourself.
Your style works best when you blend intuition and creativity together with a helpful structure.
That's what this course gives you.
We'll answer the questions that help you build YOUR process:
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Where do YOU get ideas, inspiration?
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How do YOU know when an outfit is "good"?
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When you're getting dressed, what are YOU looking for?
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What should you DO when you're stuck?
These questions might feel really complicated, but the answers are actually pretty simple.
I'll help you find them.
By the end, you'll have a style toolbox you can use every single day.
Not just today—but when your life changes, when your body changes, when your needs change.
What This Course Will Give You
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You've already had an introduction to the Style Key. You understand the system, you've felt seen by it. But feeling seen and actually being able to use it in daily life are different things.
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That's what this course is about: tangible style skills you can actually use. A color system gives you a palette. A body system gives you silhouettes.
This system teaches you how to make style decisions in a way that works for YOUR brain, in a way that helps you touch that magic. Here's how:
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Week 1: Your Energetic Medicine Every Style Key has a signature challenge, the thing that keeps you stuck and blocked. It's important to learn how to dissolve this block and for that, I will teach you about the energetic medicine. Whenever you fall into the block of your Style Key (scared to take up space, unsure if you deserve beauty, disconnected from your body), you'll have something real that opens the door again.
Week 2: Your Source of Inspiration Most people haven't actively thought about how they get inspired with style, or why it even matters. But having a starting point that excites you is crucial. This week, you'll learn to work with your natural source - whether that's your inner landscape (Subjective Self) or the world around you (Role and Context). So you know where to look when you need fresh ideas.
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Week 3: Your Refinement Focus How do you know when an outfit is working? This may seem obvious, but most people really benefit from clarity here. The Style Key teaches you to use either Expression or Experience as your compass. So when you're trying things on and can't tell if something's right, you have a reliable way to check. Not guessing. Not spiraling. Just: ask your question, get your answer.
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Week 4: Integration + Your Style Toolbox This week, we practice. You'll go from inspiration to refinement, bringing your medicine along, until the flow becomes natural. Repetition is integration. By the end, this won't be a concept you understand - it'll be a simple process you can return to anytime you need help.
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Bonus: A Taste of the Archetypes People love the archetypes - I know this. But I'm careful about when I introduce them because they're powerful and advanced. In this bonus week, you'll get an introduction to the 20 Style Key archetypes and what they can do. You're ready for this now.
What Each Week Looks Like
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Okay, so that's the journey of the course - but what do you actually get?
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When you join, you get all the materials at once. But I recommend doing them one week at a time. I've been teaching this system for years and I've seen that it's easy for people to get stuck in the conceptual realm - just taking in content without actually gaining mastery. So I've designed this course to be something you experience and do, not just info that you take in.
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Plan to spend 2-3 active hours on each week. But the experience continues to ripple out and unfold after that.
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A Written Lesson The learning materials. A thorough, written guide to this week's theme. I've written this to be extremely clear with lots of examples. For instance, I don't just talk about inspiration as a general concept. I explain what distinguishes inspiration from aspiration. I go through different examples of what it really means to be inspired by Role & Context or Subjective Self. I talk about how to identify yourself as Right/Left and how to distinguish between Soft and Strongly Right/Left. And I end by discussing what it literally means to use your inspiration in practice. These lessons are clear and concise, and I've improved them with rounds of participant feedback.
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Energetic Activation For each week, I've recorded a guided meditation on the energetic feeling for the week. The point is to feel into the theme before working with technicalities. The activation helps you find your compass. From there, everything flows.
A Reflection Question A theme to turn over in your mind throughout the week. You'll pause and notice what's already true for you - not analyzing, just tuning in.
A Styling Practice Something small, doable, and kind. A step-by-step guide to applying that week's lesson with things you own, things you find online, things you imagine. You don't need a specific wardrobe situation to do these.
Further Angles Each week includes additional ways to engage with the material. I’ve recorded “soul stories” that help you feel, and designed creative prompts that help you explore. Plus a very thorough guide on how to use that week's tool throughout different stages of your style journey.
Words from the Journey
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“This hasn’t just been a style journey—it’s been an emotional and reflective one. I’m in the middle of a life transition, and these practices have helped me clarify not only my style, but myself. I’ve loved the hands-on experience. Just doing each activity, moment by moment, has brought so much clarity. It’s paying off in ways I didn’t expect.” - Ariell
“As someone who’s worked with Rita before and used the system for years, I wasn’t sure what more there was to discover. But this course far exceeded my expectations.
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Each lesson was thoughtful and beautifully crafted. I thought I understood my quadrant (Right Down), but these practices helped me see it in a new way—and taught me how to actually use it. I’ve never felt more confident putting together outfits, and I’m finally feeling real satisfaction in my style. If you’re even a little curious about how style shapes your experience, I can’t recommend this enough.” - Sara
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“I had been experiencing a style slump and wanted to reconnect with my sense of joy in my style. This course delivered that and so much more... My favorite activity in the course was connecting with the Left+Down medicine of Indulgence. It's such a beautiful source of energy that I can tap into every day, and whenever I do it improves my mood and confidence.
Rita strives to bring us nothing but the most useful, actionable, and empathetic advice. It was so inspiring to be around her and the other members of the course. She has truly created a community of kind and passionate souls and it was amazing to see everyone leaning on each other and lifting each other up.” - Amy
This Course Meets You Where You Are
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You don't need to be totally sure which Style Key you use - this course will help you.
You don't need to hate your wardrobe or want to do a total makeover.
If you like the way I teach about style, if you want to bring the magic of beauty into your life, if you want to do something that is kind and expansive – this course is for you.
You’ll learn how to make style decisions but it’s deeper than that. It’s about opening up your creativity. It’s about touching into your heart. Yet even though it’s deep, it’s also soft. Every week is designed to be inviting and even simple to complete.
If you’re curious, say yes. You will love it.
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The Details
Okay, so you're interested! Here’s what you need to know:
Price: $97
Format: All materials are delivered as downloadable PDFs organized by week. You'll receive a link immediately after purchase.
Access: Lifetime. Come back to the materials anytime as you grow, change, or need a refresh.
What you need: You'll need to have taken the Choose Your Style Key Adventure and have a Style Key result (even if you're not 100% sure about it). If you haven't taken it yet, you can do that here [link].
Refund Policy: I want the course to be useful. If it wasn’t? I offer a 60 day refund policy. Show me that you’ve done the work, and I’ll give you a refund with no questions asked.
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Ready to begin?
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When I’m wearing a favorite outfit, I feel like my chest is full of a shimmery glow. I get a tiny cute smile when I get dressed and even if my baby kept me up all night, I think “yay, this is pretty.”
Whatever your equivalent of this is, I want it and I’ll help you have it more and more.
Enroll in Use Your Style Key for $97.
You'll get immediate access to all 4 weeks of materials, plus lifetime access to revisit anytime.
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Questions? Email me at hello@stylethoughtsbyrita.com
