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Beautiful Soul —
I See You
You're standing in the sacred space between what has been and what will be. Between the person you've been and the person you're becoming.
I’m here to serve as a guide on the path. Here to witness your gifts and your heart. Here to help you shed what no longer fits. Here to help you connect with the new you, and to honor and anoint her.
Our work is so much more than style. It’s a celebration of your sacred unfolding.
A declaration: I am here. I am still becoming – and yet, I am already whole. I already deserve beauty. I already deserve to be seen.
So what does that actually look like? What am I promising you?
What This Work Will Give You
This service is for you if you're moving through something significant.
A divorce or major breakup. A career transition or new role. Entering a new decade. Kids leaving home. Body changes from menopause or illness. A quiet but profound awakening: something you can't quite name, but you feel it in your bones.
Three months is a long time. We're going to make real progress. We're going to take significant steps forward.
But three months isn't enough to heal the ache of a loss. It's not enough to fully embrace power you've been hiding for decades. We both know that.
What I can promise you is this:
Style will become a resource you can actually use.
You'll have clothes that feel like they're for this version of you—not the person you were, not some fantasy future self, but the woman you're becoming right now.
You'll have practices that ground you when everything else feels uncertain.
You'll have clarity about what actually serves you, and the permission to release what doesn't.
What that might look like:
- Walking into that first post-divorce event. Having clothes that hold you, that remind you: I'm still here. I still have desires. I'm still becoming.
- Stepping into your new professional chapter feeling embodied. Knowing that if you need to hop on camera or join a networking lunch, you’ll show up as your genuine, powerful self, not some costume version of who you think you ought to be.
- Opening your closet and feeling the softness of possibility. Trusting yourself enough to play. Going through your day with ease rather than a mind of critical thoughts.
The truth is:
When you're in the middle of a transformation, style is a tremendous resource.
It can help you let go of the past, of constraints you placed on yourself, of burdens you've been carrying.
It can help you welcome in the future, to arrive into the world and connect warmly with your people.
Whatever your heart longs for, style can help you move toward it.
Not by solving everything.
But by giving you something beautiful and tangible to hold onto while you do the deeper work.
You Already Know
You know that style could be so much more than it is right now.
You know it could help you feel present. Creative. Loving. Alive.
When you're evolving as a person, there's so much that feels difficult. You know how helpful it would be if your style felt truly right. How you'd smile when you see yourself in the mirror. How you'd feel at ease when you're out in the world. How you could be more present, more in joy—rather than in your mind, nitpicking your appearance or feeling invisible.
You know this.
And yet.
Maybe you're disengaged—standing in front of your closet feeling nothing. Or maybe you're always shopping, trying to find that perfect thing that will finally make it click.
Either way, there's this gap. This sense that it COULD be so good.
That your beauty is RIGHT THERE, just out of reach.
And you're tired of not being able to access it.
Here's what I want you to know:
You're not bad at style. You're not too late. You're not all over the place.
The reason you don't have this sorted out is because it's difficult—and you've been trying to do it alone.
You have so much else going on. You're in the middle of a transition. You're becoming someone new. Of course you haven't figured out your most beautiful, nourishing style on top of that.
Of course it's hard.
This is the time to give style the attention, care, and energy it deserves.
Not because you're behind. Not because you look bad. Not because of whatever that critical voice says when you're feeling low.
But because you know it's worth it.
The Threshold Styling Method
I'm not going to criticize your outfits or scrutinize your body and dress you up like a doll. Our process together is methodical, intimate, and gentle.
We start with a conversation about you—the layered, sometimes contradictory, and complex person you are right now. This is the foundation, the root of everything else we do. What are you releasing? What are you calling in? What matters to you now that didn't matter before?
We name your gifts. I help you put words on that which might be hard to name, and yet what's so magical about you, what deserves to be honored and celebrated.
This is my gift. I've worked with almost eight hundred clients, and one of the most consistent things they tell me is: "I felt seen in a way that surprised me."
Once we have the myth, we move into the specifics.
Let's say your gift is courage. Your courage to take up space, to be visible, to claim your power.
I show you what courage looks like FOR YOU, at THIS point in your life.
It could be wearing a lower neckline when society says you should become invisible. It could be bold jewelry—a stack of gold bangles that announce your presence. It could be a particular shade of red, one that feels like a tender reclamation.
I create an evocative wardrobe concept for you, like a poetic North Star. From there, I translate that into the tangible: colors, silhouettes, textures. I offer brand recommendations at different price points. I share exact pieces with links.
I help you find the PERFECT pieces. The bangle stack. The specific blouse.
"Rita has this incredible ability to hold both the deep, psychological insights and the practical style tips. I knew what I wanted it to feel like, but somehow it felt impossible to actually show that softness and femininity I wanted. It just became bland when I tried. But when she showed me all her recs, it surprised me, because suddenly it was so simple and clear. Thank you Rita for showing me how it could look." — Mackenzie
I tailor the process to your unique needs. Maybe your body has changed and you need several new options. Maybe you need a closet edit. Maybe there's one situation that trips you up and you want focused support there. We shape the work around YOU.
What remains consistent is my focus on quality of experience, not quantity of purchases.
I've done a big makeover with a stylist before. It was very exciting and like a movie montage, the type of service where you buy dozens of outfits all at once and try to re-do your entire wardrobe in one go. Maybe you've tried something like that too.
It's exciting to do that. It feels like you're really doing something.
But in the end, you buy many things that aren't actually right. Things that technically fit and flatter, but which don’t actually make sense for the woman you’re becoming.
We buy ENOUGH to move you forward. The outfits we create feel like you’re coming home, and at the same time, that you’re moving forward.
Then we let time and repetition work their magic.
As you wear them, you step closer to the woman you're becoming. And suddenly: new options unfold. New desires reveal themselves. The things you buy after that will be much more aligned to your needs and tastes.
So I'm not just being poetic when I call these "talisman" pieces. I have seen that when chosen wisely, these pieces act as powerful portals into your next phase.
But we don't just work with the pieces you wear. We work with your style process. I design rituals tailored to what you need.
Maybe it's a soft moment of embodiment before you get dressed in the morning. Maybe it's a reminder you read before you shop. Maybe it's a practice of regularly getting dressed up and going somewhere. We’ll find practices that feel enjoyable and doable, and tailor it until it feels exactly right.
The Structure
Threshold Styling is a 3-month journey with five sessions and ongoing support in between.
We move at a pace that honors the tenderness of this work, the practical time demands of shopping and shipping, and the other demands of your life.
Here's how it unfolds:
Session 1: The Foundation
We explore your gifts, your myth, the story of your becoming. We talk about what you're releasing and what you're calling in. This is where we establish the roots of everything else.
What you receive: After the session, I draft a myth for you—a poetic reminder of your path and your gifts. I also share a beautiful guide to your Style Key archetype. I create your first ritual, a connection with the woman you're becoming.
Sessions 2-4: Building Your Style
We move into the tangible. We talk about the situations and needs you have in the next 6-9 months. I share a vision, brand and item recommendations. You give feedback, we refine from there. You make purchases and we figure out how to style them. I design rituals for you. We work together on whatever you need—closet edits, outfit styling, shopping support.
What you receive: A written document with a poetic description of your wardrobe concept, a visual language (colors, silhouettes, textures, etc.), brands at different price points, and links to individual pieces. I create two more rituals for you.
Between sessions:
I'm here. You can reach out with questions, send photos for feedback, share what's working or what's not. I send you moodboards, links, and ideas as they come up.
If you like doing weekly check-ins, I create a format for that. If you'd like a short weekly call, we'll do that too. It's about making the experience as beautiful and enjoyable for you as possible.
You do the work. I guide you.
We both do our parts to reach success. I send suggestions but you also do your part in searching. You acquire the pieces. You practice being the woman you're becoming.
I hold the vision, offer guidance, and walk beside you.
Session 5: The Integration
We summarize our work together and let it truly land. We review your outfits, your closet, your style process, and find satisfying answers for anything that feels unsure or unfinished.
I create a Mythic Style Guide (containing your visual direction, your practices, your story). This guide continues to serve you long after our work is done.
Is This Right For You?
Our work will ask things of you.
It will ask for your time and energy: three months, five styling sessions, regular check-ins. Time to shop, deal with packages, be with your closet.
It will ask for your willingness to be seen. Our work together is quite intimate and we don’t just talk about the colors you like but your longing, your desires.
It will ask for financial investment: $2,500 for my guidance, and typically $1,500-2,500 for the pieces themselves.
It will ask for your active participation. There’s the shopping and styling. There are also moments of reflection, a willingness to evolve as we go along.
But I don’t just ask – Threshold Styling will give to you.
You will gain clarity about your gifts, and how they serve your next chapter.
You will welcome clothes that serve the person you are right now and the one you’re becoming.
You will receive rituals that ground you.
You will feel held, seen, supported.
You will find the permission to want what you want.
You will enjoy the experience of being truly seen.
Before we begin, we'll have a connection call.
This is an emotional and artistic service, and it requires trust. I want to make sure we’re aligned before we begin. We’ll only work together if it feels right. If you feel that I’m the right person, and this is the right time.
If it DOES feel right, if something in you says "yes, this is what I need,"then I'm here.
The Investment
Threshold Styling is $2,500.
This includes:
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Five styling sessions over three months
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Ongoing support between sessions
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Your personalized myth, wardrobe concept, and visual language
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Brand and item recommendations tailored to your budget
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Three custom rituals designed for your becoming
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Your Mythic Style Guide to guide you forward
In addition to my fee, you'll invest in the pieces themselves. This is typically $1,500-2,500, depending on your needs and budget. I can bring recommendations at every price point, including thrifted/vintage shopping ideas if that's your preference.
Ready to Step Forward?
If you've found yourself nodding while reading this page, if you've been wondering what it would be like to finally give yourself the support and beauty you deserve—I'd love to talk to you.
Maybe you have questions. Maybe you're not sure if I can help with your specific style situation or the life change you're moving through. Let's talk and figure it out together.
Fill out the form below. I'll be in touch within 48 hours to schedule our 30-minute Alignment Call.
This conversation is a confidential, gentle space for mutual discerning. On that call, we'll explore where you are, what you're longing for, and whether this work feels right for you. We only begin this work if both of us feel a resonant Yes.
If it does feel aligned: we'll begin.
